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We want to say that everything that happens in church is about Jesus, but it’s simply not. There’s a whole lot of culture and power and history and social structure in there as well. Until we acknowledge how these realities shape our thinking, we’re going nowhere.
Yours is a story of dominance, of disrespecting and denying others’ rights and conquering those who are inconvenient to you.
1. We don’t know how to talk about race. 2. We don’t know who we are. 3. We need healing, too. 4. We’re afraid of losing control.
1. Fear of conflict 2. Guilt 3. Ignorance 4. Subconscious superiority complex
1. Listen 2. Learn 3. Accept 4. Affirm
1. Privilege is hard to see if you have it, but easy to see if you don’t 2. Privilege feels great and horrible all at the same time 3. Privilege creates guilt which creates shame which creates denial 4. Privilege isn’t about individuals, it’s about systems
Furious, [my daughter] interrupted me, “NO, mama! Everyone is white except me. I’m the only brown kid. Even Jesus is white!”
She might as well have stuck a knife through my heart. Those blasted colonialist publishers who had to go and make Jesus look just like them – they were fully responsible for my child feeling on the outs.
As we’ve raised biracial children, we’ve searched long and hard for toys and books that reflect a wide variety of experiences, backgrounds and perspectives. It hasn’t always been an easy or successful effort, but it’s been an important way we affirm this piece of our children’s identity.
30 day race challenge: infographic linking to resources for people wanting to develop a deeper understanding of race.
- Engage, don’t shush.
- Speak factually
- Speak figuratively
- Define race without deficiency
- Pay attention to the surroundings you create
- Discuss discrepancies
101 Culturally Diverse Christian Voices: listing representing the wide variety of Christian voices speaking about or living out their faith in the public sphere.
Iceberg Concept of Culture: One of my favorite ways to teach culture.
I know firsthand that you don’t easily know what to do with people who are not like you. Our biracial and bicultural and multilingual-but-English-speaking family lived among you in a tiny little cornfield town for 8 long and painful years, enduring glares and scowls, holding hearts and sighing wearily with the very-few-others-like-us. You love yourselves well, but you did not love us at all.
What to buy in an Indian Grocery store for dummies: a guide to basic ingredients for cooking South Asian style food.
“This isn’t what you want,” I challenged my students one day as we discussed the opulence of American culture, “I know it appears enticing, especially in comparison to the poverty, hunger, and injustice people here face on a daily basis. But what I see being chased – the pride of “image”, the greed of materialism, the selfishness of “independence” – is a façade.”
At first, I was a bit hesitant, wondering if the evil, the battle, the fear that rages in the story of good vs. evil would be too much for them. But as we read, I grew more convinced that this was more than an entertaining story, it was food for their souls.
9 ways to help children develop global awareness: Check out these ideas that include books, videos, service, travel, hospitality, generosity, imagination, simplicity.
The first time I heard you say you had a dream, I didn’t know it would be for my children. But in those first moments when I stared into their deep brown eyes, held their tiny caramel hands in my pale ones, and paused to consider the ‘content of their character’, my heart whispered your words to them.
While comparatively few are called to such an intimate cross-cultural partnership, all Christians have a responsibility to seek reconciliation across barriers.
A long(er) view of intercultural marriage. Exploring characteristics of ‘deeper intercultural marriage’: grace, insight, sacrifice, flexibility, patience, patience, honesty, friendship.
The dementia had stolen him from us one-slow-day-at-a-time, and replaced his jolly warmth with violent reactions and confused arguments. It was like having a three-year-old in the family all over again.
Though I cannot promise you it will be a simple path, I can attest mightily to its richness and depth. For in every failure, there is forgiveness, in every brokenness – healing, and in every sorrow – restoration. It will surely not appear in the ways you expect, nor as easily as you hope, but as you walk in Christ’s way, it will come, steadfast and sure.
In the earliest years of parenting, our decision to travel with our children was merely a hunch that it would be good for them in the long run. “Start as you mean to go on” became our motto, for we wanted the world to be something that was as much a part of them as their hometown, and we knew that to do this, it should be something they had always known.
The warm breeze blew romantically that evening, enticing me to relish that moment of my children dancing, twirling in their joy-filled innocence. It will not last long.
I’d now climbed right up on my own soapbox behind Annie, fully entrenched in my private choruses of “You go, girl!” She’d hit the nail on the head. These rogues – they were crazy. They converted unethically, didn’t think about anything critically, and threw their Bibles around carelessly defending their narrow-minded political causes.
Truly, the heart is deceitful above all things; and it was in marriage that we finally were forced to face our long denied deceit of stubborn habits, selfish expectations, and unrealistic dreams.
Truth-tellers are wired to poke holes, ask questions, point out inconsistencies, question accepted norms – often for the value of the greater-good, but usually at the cost of keeping-the-peace.
From the movies, I learned that love was a magic carpet ride full of wonder and adventure, a prince arriving to save me at just the right moment, or swirling around a ball-room in a place I didn’t really deserve to be. I learned that ‘being in love’ meant swooning emotions, pretty dresses and palpitating hearts.
There were no Disney movies, however, about crying angrily on the way home from church or getting up with screaming babies six times in the middle of the night or being overly snippy with your spouse.
Sometimes, I wondered if the enduring years would ever end.
As the years have passed, I’ve discovered ways of walking with God that offer more sustenance than my questions. These paths are why I’ve stayed, and why I continue to seek life in Jesus even when I don’t fully know all the answers.
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